This is what I would do if I only have one year to live:
I’ll sell most of my things and live lighter
I’ll go travel with my soul mate, daughter and my mom to visit the pyramids, travel across Canada, travel with my Buddhist teacher, visit Tibet, skydive with my Buddhist teacher, visit India again, hop over to New Zealand, spend a few weeks in Indonesia and Malaysia, visit central America
Tick off my 100 bucket list and do it all!
Blog about my experiences!
Do yoga, swim with dolphins, teach in spiritual courses and deeply connect to my soul mate…
So now for the real question: “What is stopping me from achieving all the above now?” I could answer that it’s in fact…Life: I have too many responsibilities, money issues, my life is too settled and I don’t have much time right now.
Are my responsibilities keeping me away from living my dream because I think I’ll live long enough to experience my dreams anyway? Or do I have to wait for death to come knock on my door, make the change and then live my dream? Who am I kidding! 😉
A few weeks ago I experienced a lot of busy-ness as I was preparing for my finals and sorting out my little daughter. My mind was full of calculations, strategies, assessments, thesis and reports. I had to make a change, and found this wonderful information that supported me:
Stop multi-tasking: when you eat, you eat. When you walk, you walk.
Take your time: make your actions deliberate
Do less by prioritizing: it is all a matter of what is important and letting go of what is not.
Plan your schedule and leave enough space between tasks: it takes away stress and gives you a break.
Sit in silence: only 5 minutes of silence and breathing will do you, your thoughts and your body very good.
Focus on the present: stop worrying about the future, or outcomes. Let it go and focus on what you do now.
Be present: listen and talk to others by being completely in the now
Eat to enjoy: savor your food and eat slowly. You deserve this break and take time to digest.
Live your life: savor your life and slow down. Enjoy each and every moment even the stressful ones with deadlines and tasks.
Meditating house chores: put cooking and cleaning into practice of mindfulness. Be present to every task you do and watch your thoughts then change your thought patterns consciously.
During this time I learned a lot about myself, my thought patterns and my insecurities especially on my incapabilities of what I’m currently doing. In fact, if I look at the events now, I am grateful for the challenges because I could locate these habitual patterns that kept me sort of ‘stuck’ in life. Practicing the above will not only support me in achieving that what I want but it will benefit me in the long run to living a mindful, stress-free and productive life. Try it 🙂
I find that being in a state of gratefulness allows me to really put things into perspective: I may not have everything I want but I always have everything I need.
Often life throws me ‘gratefulness’ reminders, especially when things are not going as planned. That is the time to celebrate who I am, what I am and what I have. When I feel like complaining, it’s the perfect opportunity to realize that despite my present misery, I do have a good life and that I am lucky to be born when, where and to whom.
Of course there are times I’m unaware, but that is what makes me human. Sometimes its okay to complain and just be. As long as I am aware of the big picture and of my innate being which expresses a constant, subtle and general happiness.
When we chase happiness it tends to fly away like a butterfly, moving further away each time we grab for it. When we recognize gratitude and celebrate a realistic reality of it, we’ll find happiness landing directly on our shoulders J
When you make a false statement with a deliberate intent to deceive, that is when you lie. You plant a tiny seed of deception that will manifest some way or another in your life and usually accompanied by suffering and pain.
When you lie to someone you automatically lie to yourself. At a recent party, I lied to a stranger about who I was. The next day I felt immense guilt from my poor actions.Why did I do that? Too much alcohol? After feeling sorry for myself, I looked at the reasons why I lied.
The root of the problem: ‘I was not proud of myself.’ This made me very sad and insecure. A couple of days later, I made the effort to really get to know myself by enrolling in a weekend workshop. The results were amazing!
The act of lying and its consequences are inevitable. It will catch up with you if you don’t make amends now. Lying equals not trusting and loving yourself enough, to tell the truth.